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The Spiritual Connection: Values,
Faith, and Psychotherapy

All new from Benjamin B. Conley, this book identifies underlying values upon which joyful living, spiritual depth, and all forms of psychotherapy are based.

If you have ever wondered how we “tap into and cooperate with the natural life-affirming universal power ‘wired into’ every human being,” this is the book for you. It will become your trusted guide and reference book on the relationship of values, faith, spirituality, psychotherapy, and loving connections with others.

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Printed book, softcover, 256 pages. ISBN 0-9708221-4-6
© 2001 by Benjamin B. Conley, M.Div., LMFT

Taking the Fear Out of Being Close

Total revision of papers originally written in 1992. You will learn that close does not mean "vulnerable," and that acceptance does not mean "agreement."

Here is your window into understanding that loving relationships are the safest of all relationships, that our acceptance of each other as we are has the power to evoke positive change, and that the most effective emotional defense is empathizing with each other.

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Success in Marriage

The text used for Preparation for Marriage Workshops, with paper exercises in the back to help you identify how your past experiences affect the way you treat your partner in the present.

Here is a concise summary of what pollutes the marital relationship and what sanctifies it. You will find a clarification of the meaning of love and how our treatment of each other has the power to nurture or to destroy a loving, intimate relationship. You will understand how emotional growth and spiritual growth are intimately related.

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© 1996-2007 by Benjamin B. Conley

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Making Relationships Work

This primer for relationship success shows how the principles of Imago Relationship Therapy can create and maintain the safety and nurturing essential to intimate, joyful relationships.

You will find answers to your questions about how Imago Relationship Therapy works and how listening, understanding and empathizing infuse spiritual life into an intimate relationship. An illustration of how one couple experienced the process will bring the process to life and identify how therapy can help you create the marriage of your dreams.

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The Meaning of Love

Did you ever wonder if he or she really loves you? This book takes the confusion out of the different meanings we give the word, love. You will gain an understanding of the ways in which we define love and loving relationships

This sophisticated study examines the evolution of love in our emotional growth and the ways we create connections with others. It speaks to the nearly universal experience of "falling in love," and the ways in which that experience meets the unmet needs of the loved one. The three meanings of love are defined and then related to sexual intimacy. The need for love we never outgrow is discussed as fundamental to all relationships.

As a bonus with this book, you will receive a free email consultation ($100 value) with the author, and a free telephone consultation with the author ($100 value)

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© 2002-2007 Revised by Benjamin B. Conley

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Affirming Feelings:
Creative Use of Emotional Power

You may have sometime wondered how to "control" your unpleasant feelings. This book will help you understand the importance and power of feelings to create and maintain emotional health and productive loving relationships.

Here you have a book to stimulate careful thinking about the basis of emotional functioning and the power our feelings give us for positive change. Conley separates feeling from thinking, and draws on neuroimmunolgical research to discuss the relationship of brain and emotions mediated by the body's communication system. Here is a down-to-earth discussion of how to harness the power of feelings, even though the mechanisms by which emotions function are still being mapped.

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© 1995-2007 by Benjamin B. Conley